Thoughtful articles on therapy, trauma, relationships, and the nervous system.
These reflections explore experiences and patterns that can feel confusing, overwhelming, or hard to shift — including trauma, relationship difficulties, shutdown, hypervigilance, self-protection, and the ways people can come to organise themselves around stress, disconnection, or survival.
Some pieces are more reflective. Others are more practical. All are written to help make difficult experiences feel a little more understandable.
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Feeling constantly on edge can be exhausting. This article explains hypervigilance in plain language: why the nervous system stays on guard, how trauma and chronic stress can shape this response, and why it is not a sign of weakness or overreaction.
Read MoreMany people come to therapy with good insight into why they struggle, yet still feel hijacked by anxiety, shutdown, shame, or relational patterns. This article explores why trauma is not only cognitive, and why meaningful change may require attention to relationship, affect, the body, and the nervous system as well as reflection.
Read MoreSome difficulties live primarily in the nervous system, not in the story.
Read MoreHave you ever jumped at a sudden noise, felt your stomach drop when someone’s tone changed, or noticed your body tense before you even understood why?
That’s not you being “too sensitive.” That’s your nervous system doing its job.
Read MoreWondering what happens in Deep Brain Reorienting? Here’s a step-by-step guide to a DBR session, including pacing, safety, and after-care.
Read MoreA few reflections about my experience and practice of mindful meditation.
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Relational psychotherapist, ILF neurofeedback practitioner, and clinical supervisor in Shinfield, Reading, Berkshire, UK.
In-person and online psychotherapy, neurofeedback, and supervision.
+44 (0)7803 049039 · paolo@presentingpast.co.uk
UKCP Registered Psychotherapist · BACP Registered Member · CTA-P
