Reflections on therapy, trauma, and the nervous system

Articles and reflections from my practice

This page brings together articles and reflections from my practice.

Some focus directly on therapy, trauma, the nervous system, and relationship patterns. Others reflect more broadly on the values and human questions that shape how I think about suffering, care, relationship, and psychological work.

If you have come here because you are considering therapy, you may also want to look at the main therapy pages, About, or Getting started to get a clearer sense of how I work.

You can also read more about some of the key values behind my work.

June 27, 2026

What makes therapy feel safe enough to begin — and safe enough to work?

June 27, 2026/ Paolo Imbalzano

For therapy to help, it does not need to feel perfect, but it usually does need to feel safe enough. This article explores what helps create that sense of enough safety: pacing, steadiness, consent, attunement, clarity, and the possibility of rupture and repair.