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Paolo Imbalzano

Reflections on therapy, trauma, and the nervous system

Paolo Imbalzano

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Articles on therapy, trauma, relationships, and the nervous system

 
March 06, 2026

Trauma in Relationships — Why Safety Matters More Than Insight

March 06, 2026/ Paolo Imbalzano
Trauma in Relationships — Why Safety Matters More Than Insight

“I understand why I’m like this — but it still happens.” If you can relate to this, read more about how trauma operates in relationship.

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March 06, 2026/ Paolo Imbalzano/ Comment
Relationships work, Trauma
relational trauma, attachment, relationship patterns, nervous system regulation, hypervigilance, shutdown, fawn, repair, Relational Transactional Analysis, relational psychotherapy, trauma therapy
 

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Paolo Imbalzano

Relational psychotherapist, ILF neurofeedback practitioner, and clinical supervisor.

Psychotherapy and supervision in person and online. Neurofeedback in person only, in Reading, Berkshire.

+44 (0)7803 049039 · paolo@presentingpast.co.uk

UKCP Registered Psychotherapist · BACP Registered Member · CTA-P

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