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Reflections on psychotherapy, trauma, relationships and embodied experience

Writing on psychotherapy, trauma, relationship and the nervous system

This page brings together articles and reflections arising from clinical practice, ongoing study and the questions that continue to shape how I think about psychotherapy.

Some explore trauma, regulation, neurodiversity, neurofeedback, relational patterns and the process of therapeutic change. Others consider broader questions about adaptation, suffering, connection, responsibility, and what therapy may—and may not—be able to offer.

The aim is not to provide treatment advice or simple answers. These reflections offer a place to think more deeply about psychological experience and the ideas that inform my work.

If you are considering therapy and would prefer a practical starting point:
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For a quieter collection of words that have accompanied my thinking and work:
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October 24, 2026

Previous therapy didn't help enough. How do I choose differently this time?

October 24, 2026/ Paolo Imbalzano
Previous therapy didn't help enough. How do I choose differently this time?

Previous therapy may have helped you understand yourself without bringing the changes you hoped for. How can that experience help you choose a therapeutic approach and a therapist more deliberately this time?

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October 24, 2026/ Paolo Imbalzano/
Therapy and relationships
Therapeutic relationship, relational psychotherapy
 

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Presenting Past Psychotherapy

Paolo Imbalzano · UKCP-registered psychotherapist and clinical supervisor ·
BACP-registered member and supervisor · Certified Transactional Analyst (Psychotherapy)
Relational psychotherapist, neurofeedback practitioner, and clinical supervisor.
Psychotherapy and supervision are available in person and online.
Neurofeedback available in person in Reading, Berkshire.
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